It may feel like brain surgery to some men who have tried to seduce a mature woman who knows what she wants. And yet mature seduction is no a secret to a pick up artist. The techniques her are not for the "nice girl" types but for women who are mature, powerful and know what they want. Your biggest challenge and dare is to become part of the strong woman's fantasy, to take a role in her fantasy.
Before we get started it's important to know that this is never about forcing a woman to do something she doesn't want to do. Instead, you are getting her to a place where she wants you, then you both play along.
A word of caution before you read on. When applying mature seduction techniques you must know that you are dealing with a very powerful woman who will not be made a fool of lightly. Your sincerity must be in tact. These techniques will work easier when you get to spend a lot of time with them. You may want to look for "cougars" who roam the net looking for love and companionship. Mature seduction techniques work great with cougars.
Tip 1: She calls the shots but you lead her to her decisions
If this doesn't seem clear at first, think about this: the more you force a mature woman to do your bidding, the more she will feel controlled, dominated. You can start by positively suggesting that the best thing for her to do is to date you. Agree with her a few times, then when she's quietly contemplating things, you gently tell her what you want to happen. The best time to deeply embed some suggestions into her brain is when she's feeling happy, feeling elated and feeling in love with you. Maybe you can tell her to go with you after dinner, while you're still in the car and about to eat. At that point, she's obviously excited to spend dinner with you, and now you're giving her something else to look forward to. She can then mull over it throughout dinner, and as long as you play your cards right, you're golden.
Tip 2: Play right into her fantasy
The best time to make suggestions to a woman is when she is feeling happy, elated and in love. For example, while you're still in the car you can tell her to join you after dinner, this gives her something else to look forward to. This gives her a chance to contemplate your suggestion and as long as you are a gentleman all the way you'll get her to follow you around like a kitty cat.
Tip 3: Play with her fantasy
Playing into a mature woman's fantasy is a major component of these techniques. Whether her fantasy is of romantic or outrageous fabric, your goal is to become part of that fantasy. Whether she wants to have a man in her life, a lover, a best friend or a baby, be that for her. Ask her what she didn't get in other relationships and then be that missing component. Remember that this is not about letting her walk all over you and for her to control her. At the core of every woman is a little girl who wants to feel emotionally secure, she wants to be led, she wants to be dominated so she can feel safe. This goes for all areas of your relationship, be in the bedroom or when you take her out in public. It's the way you do it that makes a difference for her. - 20785
Before we get started it's important to know that this is never about forcing a woman to do something she doesn't want to do. Instead, you are getting her to a place where she wants you, then you both play along.
A word of caution before you read on. When applying mature seduction techniques you must know that you are dealing with a very powerful woman who will not be made a fool of lightly. Your sincerity must be in tact. These techniques will work easier when you get to spend a lot of time with them. You may want to look for "cougars" who roam the net looking for love and companionship. Mature seduction techniques work great with cougars.
Tip 1: She calls the shots but you lead her to her decisions
If this doesn't seem clear at first, think about this: the more you force a mature woman to do your bidding, the more she will feel controlled, dominated. You can start by positively suggesting that the best thing for her to do is to date you. Agree with her a few times, then when she's quietly contemplating things, you gently tell her what you want to happen. The best time to deeply embed some suggestions into her brain is when she's feeling happy, feeling elated and feeling in love with you. Maybe you can tell her to go with you after dinner, while you're still in the car and about to eat. At that point, she's obviously excited to spend dinner with you, and now you're giving her something else to look forward to. She can then mull over it throughout dinner, and as long as you play your cards right, you're golden.
Tip 2: Play right into her fantasy
The best time to make suggestions to a woman is when she is feeling happy, elated and in love. For example, while you're still in the car you can tell her to join you after dinner, this gives her something else to look forward to. This gives her a chance to contemplate your suggestion and as long as you are a gentleman all the way you'll get her to follow you around like a kitty cat.
Tip 3: Play with her fantasy
Playing into a mature woman's fantasy is a major component of these techniques. Whether her fantasy is of romantic or outrageous fabric, your goal is to become part of that fantasy. Whether she wants to have a man in her life, a lover, a best friend or a baby, be that for her. Ask her what she didn't get in other relationships and then be that missing component. Remember that this is not about letting her walk all over you and for her to control her. At the core of every woman is a little girl who wants to feel emotionally secure, she wants to be led, she wants to be dominated so she can feel safe. This goes for all areas of your relationship, be in the bedroom or when you take her out in public. It's the way you do it that makes a difference for her. - 20785
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Chaszey Sandhriel is a famous expert in the area of relationships; go to her site to download your free 7-day online dating e-course. She's also the author of a unique love blog giving tips about how to find true love.
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